Hello. I apologise if I write a large amount I want people to know and understand my thoughts and reasons for trying to raise funds for a man who I call my Hero..
I was in the care system my whole life, my parents couldn’t step up and be what I needed them too be. It was like I never existed to them, I was placed in foster placement after foster placement, went from care home to care home and was past from pillar to post, I never had a solid safe secure place to call home or a family to call my own. And always felt like I had no-one to turn too. A lot of people think the care system is full of children who are badly behaved or are uncontrollable, it’s not always the case I was placed in care for reasons in which couldn’t be further from those statements, my parents simply didn’t want to bring me up, they brought me into this world and couldn’t be responsible enough to give me what I needed as a child.
When I turned the legal age to leave the care system, I had nowhere to go, the system always told me I would be okay, I’d have a house to go into and I’d get help due to me being in the care system& having no family around, when the time came I slowly came to the realisation that this wasn’t the case. I couldn’t see a way forward at that time. I had no-one and nothing.
I soon after met this man, who after time I realised he understood how I was feeling and understood a lot of what I’d been through, although he had never been in the care system himself, he had his mother, but she was never around, he never got the opportunity to ever meet his father, I realised he had been through similar situations and seen similar things to me. And to this day I call him my Hero…
Not only because 3 years ago we fell in love and he took me in when I had nowhere and nothing, He showed me what having a safe place to call home was, He showed me what it was like to have someone who truly cared for me, He showed me what love was and proved to me that there was kind people in this world. He gave me that cared for feeling I’d searched for my whole life, and he is the most kind hearted,down to earth and thoughtful person I’ve ever met.
I know I will never be able to let him know properly how he saved me, I know I also won’t be able to come close to what he has done for me and what that means. But I want to try my hardest to help him with his only Dream in life! I want to ask people around the world to help me, because now I realise there are kind hearted and thoughtful people who really do care out there! He put me first, and I just want to try and show him how he has changed my life and I hope I can change his and make his dream come true.
He has always had one dream in his life, always wanted to achieve one thing, always wanted to have this one thing to leave his children, give his children that feeling and something he never had himself, people have told him he can’t do it, he will never manage it, he’s not good enough, I know he can achieve his life goal! And I have to try my best to help him for fill his dream.
He is and has been since a little boy been in love with his cars, he has always dreamed of having his own car detailing business, he expressed to me that he loves making people feel good and happy about them self’s, and him having his dream business, can not only for fill his hopes for helping and caring for other people, but it can allow him the chance and opportunity to do something he’s always wished and loved.
He has worked a number of different jobs, day and night, all hours to try and save to fund the equipment and materials for his dream himself, but as we all know, adult life is hard and expensive, he feels like he will never make it to his dream. I want to change that with your help and make this amazing mans dream come true. I want to show him that there is a community out there who believes in him. And I want to give him that opportunity to have something he has worked from the bottom up to leave his children. I want us to make his life complete and show him we believe in him.
I feel I’ve tried my hardest to explain why and the purpose of my campaign, I know it’s a lot to read but I’ve been as honest as I can be, I can only hope the world understands!
Much love too you all!